Hinduism, a rich and ancient tradition, holds unique beliefs about life, death, and the soul’s journey. Unlike the end of existence, death is seen as a transition, with the soul (atman) embarking on a new path towards spiritual growth and liberation. Reincarnation, or the cycle of rebirth (samsara), plays a central role. The ultimate aspiration lies in achieving “Moksha,” freedom from this cycle and attaining enlightenment.
Following a loved one’s passing, various rituals and ceremonies are conducted to facilitate the soul’s peaceful progression and honor the departed. These observances vary depending on specific family traditions and regional customs. Let’s explore some significant post-cremation rituals:
1. Chautha (4th Day Ceremony):
This gathering on the fourth day after the loss brings family and friends together. Prayers (shanti path) are recited, and teachings on the essence of life are shared. Devotional songs (bhajans) are sung in remembrance of the departed. These rituals are believed to aid the soul in finding a new body for its next reincarnation.
2. Asthi Visarjan (Immersion of Ashes):
Considered an auspicious ritual, Asthi Visarjan involves immersing the deceased’s ashes in holy rivers like the Ganges, Godavari, or Netravati. This act symbolizes the release of the soul from earthly ties and its progression towards Moksha. Traditionally performed on the day of the last rites or the third, seventh, or ninth day, many families also choose sacred pilgrimage sites like Haridwar, Varanasi, or Rishikesh for this practice.
3. Pindadaan (Offering Rice Balls):
According to Hindu funeral beliefs, the soul may wander the earth after death seeking peace. Pindadaan is a ritual performed by relatives to offer rice balls, appeasing the departed soul’s hunger and aiding its journey. Traditionally performed from the first to the tenth day, this ceremony is sometimes combined into a single offering in modern times. Pindadaan rituals are often conducted in temples dedicated to deities like Shiva. Following the ritual, coconut oil is poured on the ashes, which are then submerged in flowing water.
4. Rituals for the 11th and 12th Day:
On the 11th day, a fire sacrifice called Panchagavya Hom is performed at home, honoring the deities. The “karta,” the primary performer of the last rites, makes a vow (sankalp) to benefit the departed soul by donating food grains. The 12th day observes the Sapindikaran Shraddha ceremony. These rituals are believed to help the departed attain the status of “Pitru” and secure a place in Pitrulok, the realm of ancestors.
5. Ceremony for the Final 13th Day:
On the 13th or 16th day, a ceremony is held to further support the departing soul’s journey. This gathering involves family, friends, and community members sharing meals, sweets, and Prashad (blessed food). It symbolizes the soul’s severance from the earthly realm and its connection with the universal soul.
6. 16th-Day Death Ceremony:
Following specific traditions, some observe the 16th-day ceremony, particularly for the deceased father. Rituals may involve shaving the son’s head and offering rice balls and holy water near the body. These final observances conclude the mourning period, signifying the completion of rituals believed to uplift the soul and facilitate its transformation.
Conclusion:
Deeply rooted in the beliefs and customs surrounding the soul’s journey, Hindu death rituals offer respect to the deceased and provide spiritual support for their journey in the afterlife. By adhering to these traditions with respect and devotion, Hindus aim to ensure the peaceful passage and ultimate liberation of the soul.
As you grieve, allow Kaashimukthi to guide you through these observances, so you can focus on cherishing the memories of your departed loved one.
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